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The Top 5 Most Unromantic-Romantic Gestures

When we talk about romantic gestures, the
same few ideas come up. Candlelit dinners, handwritten love notes,
thoughtful gifts for no-particular occasion. What we don’t talk about though are all
the unromantic-romantic gestures we can do for the one we love, which is exactly what
I’m going to discuss today. Hey ladies, my name is Amy North, welcome
to my YouTube channel. For those of you who don’t know me I’m
a relationship coach from Vancouver, BC and author of The Devotion System – a program
I’ve designed to help women find and lock down the love they want and deserve. Now today I’m going to talk about how you
can be romantic in the non-cliche sense of the word. Since the most romantic things are the ones
that are unexpected, by adding a few of these ideas to your routine you’ll not only have
your guy’s head spinning because he won’t have seen it coming, but it’ll also deepen
his love for you because he’ll see that you’re going out of your way to make him
smile. Before I share these unromantic-romantic gestures
with you though I’d like to quickly ask that if you like his video or find it at helpful
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it’s what makes it possible for me to keep coming out with new videos for you all, so
please, don’t forget to hit the button below! Okay, now let’s talk gestures. 1. See the movie he wants. There’s no denying that you and your man
probably have different tastes when it comes to movies. Now, that’s not to say that you both don’t
appreciate a good comedy or epic thriller, but rather that along with your similarities,
you also have differences. One of the most unromantic-romantic gestures
you can make is it see the movie he wants. Why? Because he knows that you don’t really want
to see if, but that you’re willing to do so for him. What makes his romantic is simply the fact
that you’re putting his wants above your own. That alone will mean the world to him! 2. Surprise him with his favourite breakfast
or lunch. Now depending on your schedules, this one
will vary. I mean, if you both work days then the chances
of you getting to his end of town to bring him his favourite sandwich on your lunch break
isn’t the most realistic. Sure, delivery is an option for some places,
but don’t sweat it if you can’t make this one happen — after all, there are three
meals to everyday so work with what you can here! But, if you can manage to surprise him with
his favourite lunch then do so! He’ll not only appreciate you remembering
what he likes, but he’ll be blown away by the fact that you took time out of your day
to make him feel loved. If you have to opt for breakfast then that
works too! Knowing how your man likes his eggs cooked
or how he takes his coffee speaks volumes of your love for him. After all, it’s these little gestures that
mean more than any candlelit meal. 3. Spend time with his loved ones Depending on where you live in relation to
his family, spending time with his loved ones may or may not be possible. But for the sake of this video, let’s say
it is. So then, a great way to be unromantically-romantic
is to spend time with the people who mean the most to your man. Maybe that’s his Mom or Dad, or perhaps
it’s a sibling or even cousin. Whoever it is, spending some quality time
with that person and treating him or her to a wonderful day out will mean a lot to your
man. And even though it doesn’t seem romantic
because it’s not something you’re doing together, believe me, it most definitely is! Bonus tip here: if your man’s loved ones
don’t live in the same city as you then make a point to call or message them every
once in awhile. Even something as simple as exchanging text
messages with someone who’s important to him he’ll appreciate, which in the long
run, will take you far with him. 4. Get involved in the things he loves Whether this means sitting down and giving
his favourite video game a go, or watching the football game on Sunday afternoon, when
you take the time to do the things your guy loves, that’s one of the most romantic things
you can do. Why? Because you’re again, putting his interests
first and trying new things because they’re important to him. That alone will show him how important he
is to you, and before you know it, you’ll be his favourite person. For more tips on how to up your odds to become
your man’s dream woman visit my site, and watch the free video presentation. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did! 5. Run him a bath Whoever thinks that baths are just for women
is greatly mistaken, in fact, you’d be surprised how much men actually enjoy a nice relaxing
soak in the tub. That’s why simply running your man a bath
is one of the most unromantic-romantic things you can do for him. Don’t stop there though! Go the whole nine yards and be sure to include
everything from candles to soothing music. Creating a relaxing atmosphere for your guy
to bask in after a long hard day will mean more to him then you’ll know. Just be sure that you set the mood and get
out. After all, this is for him, not you! Again, it’s these kind of little moments
that show you understand your man and care deeply for him. While grand gestures are nice, the five I
just shared with you are just as, if not more powerful because they’re personalized and
done without reason or expectation. Well, now it’s your turn to weigh in. Do you agree with this list? Do you have any other unromantic-romantic
gestures you’d like to share? If so, please post those in the comments below,
I’d love to hear your thoughts on the kind of romantic gestures you can do daily for
your man. Also, if you have any questions or comments
about this video then feel free to post those as well. I always love hearing from you and I’ll
do my best to get back to you as soon as possible! As always thanks so much for watching, and
until next time, take care and good luck!

11 Replies to “The Top 5 Most Unromantic-Romantic Gestures”

  • I know this may be weird for some, but even things like rubbing your guy's feet after a long day, bringing him his plate of food. All of those things you listed above Amy are awesome and I will take note of them. I love and have watched all of your videos, thanks for keeping me on my toes. xo

  • Go “old school”! Mail him a handwritten letter or send him an unsolicited card to his postal address to let him know how special he is. Don’t tell him. Let him be surprised when he checks the mail and finds an enveloped addressed to him, with your handwriting, among junk mail and bills.

  • If you watch the football game with him even though you hate it, does that mean he should go makeup shopping with you? I'd hate to see women doing these things when the guy wouldn't reciprocate. Otherwise she's just a doormat. If the guy DOES reciprocate, then great!

  • I'm falling for a guy but I'm always the one who makes the effort to call or text…which sometimes it makes me feel like I'm chasing him and I really don't want to be a chaser…I don't know what to do coz I don't even know whether he is interested…

  • One thing i did for my man was i laid my head on his chest, and said to him that this is my heaven , i feel so secure in your arms, and he blushed and said no one has ever said that to me before…that moment still gives me a high when i think about it…🙈

  • always kiss my husband goodnight…even when im mad , thats the one thing i do everynight for him for the past 9 years.

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