The 3 BEST Body Language Signs For Making Friends
August 14, 2019
welcome to lesson 6 of the beefriend
course in our previous lesson we talked about the three reasons why learning and
paying attention to body language is so important in today’s lesson I’m gonna
show you the three body language signs you need to use in all of your future
interactions these three so-called friend signals are the three most
powerful signs if used correctly will make others like you a lot more upon
meeting you and also make you seem like a much more approachable and trustworthy
person so let’s get started we’re gonna start off with the one sign out of these
three that you probably already know which is the smile smiling is the most
powerful friend signal and this is for a very good reason see when we smile our
brain actually releases endorphins which are chemicals that make us feel good and
what’s interesting is that people who see your smile will also release
endorphins in their brains so when you’re genuinely smiling during a
conversation both you and whoever you’re interacting with will feel good but we
have to pay close attention to the word genuine see the truth of the matter is
there are many moments in our lives where we force ourselves to smile during
awkward conversations working retail with mean customers and dealing with
terrible bosses we often put on a fake smile to pretend that everything is
a-okay but the problem is it’s pretty easy to tell the difference between a
fake smile and a genuine one if you smile incorrectly the fake way people
will think you are faking your emotions and they will have a hard time trusting
you it’s gonna have the opposite effect of what you want so it’s very important
that you learn how to create a genuine smile on command correctly a genuine
smile looks something like this when someone is truly happy and they smile
bags will appear under their eyes their cheeks will raise very high and slight
wrinkles called crow’s feet will appear on the edge of their eyes the best way
to practice this is by paying attention to the next time you’re actually having
a good time when you’re actually smiling or laughing because you feel great pay
attention to how your face feels and then practice it on your own at home in
front of a mirror it takes some practice but you’ll eventually be able to pull it
off and the crazy thing is when you learn how to create a genuine smile on
command you will actually feel better in your interactions with others which
makes you seem like an even more fun person to be around
second friend signal is what’s called the eyebrow flash this is when you raise
and drop your eyebrows very very quickly in fact you can practice this right now
by raising and lowering your eyebrows as fast as you can just like this if you
sit down and watch people in a crowded area you’ll notice that almost all close
friends who are meeting up will use it upon seeing each other it’s kind of a
way of saying hello so when you use it with a complete stranger or an
acquaintance that you barely know it’s gonna make you appear a lot friendlier
because it’s a body language sign that we’re accustomed to seeing our friends
use so how do we use the eyebrow flash well it’s best used from a distance at
least a couple of feet away let’s say you see someone across the room that
you’d like to talk to by using the eyebrow flash combined with a bit of eye
contact and a genuine smile you’d be telling them hey I’m a friendly person
and I like to talk to you now it’s very important to note that you have to do
this correctly if you do the eyebrow flash incorrectly you’re gonna come off
as a complete creep the most common mistake that people make when using the
flash is that they hold their eyebrows up for too long just like this another
common mistake is that they don’t smile if you use the eyebrow flash and just
stare at someone without smiling you’re gonna come off as a potential
threat so try not to do that alright so let’s move on to the final friend signal
which is the head tilt now the head tilt is a powerful friend signal because of
what it implies see the arteries on the side of our neck are some of the most
important arteries in our body so when we humans and also other mammals feel
threatened we tend to tuck our neck in in order to protect these sensitive
areas when you actively tilt your head to the side you’re actually exposing one
of the most vulnerable parts of your body to the world which signals to
whoever you’re interacting with that you feel extremely comfortable relaxed and
at ease and remember like we mentioned before when you do something like smile
and you feel a certain way whoever you’re interacting with will also feel a
little bit of that too so your feeling of ease and comfort will transfer over
to whoever you’re interacting with people are going to think wow this
person is so relaxed around me that makes me feel better
even though I just met him now how exactly do we do the head tilt well it’s
actually quite simple you want to make sure that you’re tilting your head just
a little bit not so much anywhere from 10 to 20 degrees if you tilt your head
so much gonna look kind of weird you want to use
the head tilt when you’re close to someone like when you’re sitting down at
a table or at the bar it is especially powerful when someone
else is talking and you’re listening to them as it will look like you are
extremely focused on whatever it is that they’re saying and people love a good
listener now if you combine all three of these
powerful friend signals properly then it should look something like this and just to give you an idea of how
powerful this is let’s compare it to the same person doing none of these things
can you see the difference which one would you want to talk to more these
three friends signals are extremely important when it comes off to giving a
good first impression so make sure you practice using them in all of your
future interactions if you do I guarantee that you will see an
improvement in how people receive you in our next lesson we’re gonna talk about
body language signs you want to avoid you just learned about what signals will
make you become more likeable but there are also signals out there that you need
to avoid like the plague signals that will make you unlikable so make sure you
subscribe and hit that Bell icon because you definitely don’t want to miss it
besides that guys stay tuned
What do you think about the new art style for the BeeFriend Course?
If you have any questions about what we covered today – let me know down below.
I don't think introverts have much of these characters
I have a question, how do I make it so that people are interested and wanna talk to me ? No matter how much effort I make to go towards people, I'm always the one driving the interaction and when I have a day when I feel down and don't talk it's like I don't exist anymore nobody talks to me whereas other people get their usual "Did something happen" or "Why are you depressed?"
I would like to have more friends (let´s say one or two) but no one want to make friends with me. Do you think it could be because I try too hard or is it because I´m introvert?…………….Or something else???
i thought the best body language was a rolex
You should do a face reveal.
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Wow helpful thanks and keep going
2:53 he's mad because he's cockblocking 😂
Head tilt chin lift is a technique for CPR
Normal ppl : living life
Me : watching videos to understand humans
Pretty sure that raised eyebrow movement is supposed to imply something sexual
"When you smile genuinely bags will appear under your eyes" I already got that down without even smiling.
I think the person A looks sort of creepy.
The other animations (that are simplier) are cool
I already do all these 😁
Thank you so much for creating free courses love from india
YOUR ARE DOING A AWESOME JOB
I'm curious to know if it's true the most of our communication is body language, is this fact supported by science?
In India, eyebrow raising can be dangerous. If it's done to a girl, We can get attacked by a mob anytime
Useful tips but I find this all comes very naturally 😀👌🏽
I actually enjoyed the style in the bad habit video, but I don't much like it here. I noticed that in this video things didn't move as much, and when they did they were a bit stilted. I don't miss the words on the screen style, but I personally think it would be best to utilize more pictures of real people like you used to do in the other style, especially for the befriend course. Some of the moments were the you made the characters do specific things were a bit, for lack of a better word, creepy. However, I did really appreciate the advice contained in the video, as always.
Keep of the good work!
Why so rare uploads now?
At 5:00 when he asked which would u rather talk to, I thought the one u were supposed to seem friendlier just looked like a serial killer. . .
4:55 Person A looks like a serial killer lol
Love the animation.Really hitting up the quality
Nice 😀
This is watched by sociopaths to learn how people act.
Thanks
Could some of this also be seen as submissive though?
It's a very good vid but brooooo.
The Abingdon in this is so cool and smooth.
Is this a new animator?
The thumbnails looks promising 😁
My take away is the head tilt-. Thank you-!
To tell the truth, I'd better like to talk to the second guy. The first one looks creepy (or maybe it's just the picture)
4:25 yeah, let me just grab my protractor when I’m in public and just uh… measure the angle
instructions not clear, head tilt like shaft animations
How to fix neediness behaviours ?
"SMILE EVEN YOUR HAERT IS ACHING"-JOKER
If you smile all the time, you're probably trying to sell something that doesn't work
So basically, learn to fake it better
More color and more movement/tekst would be cool. Nice video but animation was bad this time
Sir How Do You Make Thumbnails ?
This is just gay af
I hope this helps me smash
3:05 LMFAO
This is why I love this channel!
Anyone found person A is kind of creepy?
Man I love your videos but this befriend course is taking a bit of a long time now. You have released past few videos only every 2-3 months so can you give any rough estimate on when this course could be completed? Any possibilities to speed up the process? 😀
when got a ugly smile
Nooo! Cliffhanger!
index
00:33 Smile
2:15 eye brow flash
3:29 head tilt
Automatically adding a like for having the summary available at the begining of the video
My eye brows dont move…..
Great Video man! You are doing an awesome job.
Which app are you using for the videos??
4:48 "you was at the club… bottoms up when I first met you"
When you watch videos on how to appear friendly to attempt to make yourself some friends, but the only living being wanting to be around you is your cat.
Forever alone….. 🙂
Raising an eye brow? I'll be *the ROCK*!
If you smell what the ROCK is cookin'
1. Smile
2. Raised Eyebrows
3. Head Tilt
Thank You 🙂
Eyebrow flash and head tilt = signs of friendliness? Must be an American thing. I've never seen anyone do these. And if I did, I'd perceive them as being quite weird.
This is one perspective. What about when your trying to show these signals to someone and you pick up bad vibes from them.
Thank you so much
Nice 😍
The drawings somewhat were creepy..
How to be a sociopath 101
I don't like it when i smile. I hate the way i look when i do, maybe that's why i don't have friends.
It’s hard for me to smile at people. Usually when people look at me, I look away and then I realize I didn’t smile at them. I start to freak out, so I just look away fast :/
I already know how to smile on command, and I can raise my eyebrows, but I can't do both at the same time. Anything I can do about this?
I always do the eyebrow flash..but i dont smile but i think they understand
Also use a quick head nod and a smile when exchanging glances, just to show warm recognition of someone you're passing by.
Now all I gotta do is use all these tactics to conquer the world. Thanks a lot👌
My Dad is a Pro at meeting new people- I asked him once how does he do it and he gave me I think the best advice ever. When meeting new people, just act like you know them and been friends with them for years.
I think this will help me tomorrow
Maybe I will take to someone tomorrow
And let see the results (・∀・)
when I smile my eyes disappear 😂😂💔
3:28 India has entered the chat
I think I'd rather talk to person B. The latter looks like a terrorist
Well.. 1st Friend Signal is SMILE
Me: Well im out.
"Genuine smile on command" not really what i call a genuine smile
This video made me laugh with all the faces. LOL :^D
dude what if you look like a creep when smiling? literally i tried everything but even my original smile is creepy. when i laugh my teeth don't appear and somehow it creeps people
i prefer the previous animation..plz do that one
What if these come off as flirting?
1:45 oh my that looks creepy for some reason.
This is the best video about body language I have ever seen.
The animation makes it so much better. I loved it.
Thank you for adding so much value with this course.
I dont understand, how do you have 1.4M subs but only 80k views (1 month after release)
This channel is truly educational.
damn i love ur art style
my momma has always said surround myself with people who make my face hurt! what she meant was… surround myself with people who make me laugh & smile sooooo much, that my face will hurt!! GREAT ADVICE!!
love you momma!!!💕💕🤗😂😘
The best way to start your day is to dance in front of a mirror. Do this every morning and you will live an happier life!
Till now i only tilted my head to show my friends my jawline
Humans so confusing..
When will the next video come ? I'm missing this ! :3
Does this work
Thanks! Learning body language is very useful
I learn a lot.Thx Phill👍
I just want to aks:
To make freinds does all that matter?I make freind wihout knowing any of those signals.
4:48
"let`s not turn this rape into a murder"
Lol where's the body languages to avoid vid or is it not up yet?
I'll still choose the 2nd one. The first one looks like a creep
I’d just like to thank you – I’m autistic and I have a really hard time with body language and social cues so this course is really helpful
This sounds like so much work especially for an introvert 😥😣😖
I’m officially now a psychopath and can bend human minds to my will
i just kinda always tilt my head a little… my haircut is actually uneven because of it