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Body Language Breakdown: Alexis and Chika | Ready to Love | Oprah Winfrey Network


We almost made it to marriage. But I think one day I remember
just out of the clear blue saying, hey, if you were
to propose to me today, I’m not sure that
I would say yes. After you had been
with for six years? TRACY MCMILLAN: Hi,
I’m Tracy McMillan from “Family or Fiance.” And I’m here to take a look
at these singles in “Read to Love,” their body
language, their chemistry. What’s going on here? We’re going to have a look. What’s your
longest relationship? – 10.
– OK. Yeah. I think my longest
was six years. What happened? We almost made it to marriage. But I think one day I remember
just out of the clear blue saying, hey, if you were
to propose to me today, I’m not sure that
I would say yes. After you had been
with for six years? Trust me, I know. I felt like I was
head of household. And that was getting old. And he was a dreamer. Like that’s the sad
part when it comes to it. Like you can know a
good dude, but he’s just not a good man right now.
– I think that was the case. – And that’s all it is.
– He actually– he got married. Probably got everything–
well, hopefully he got everything together.
– Maybe. I don’t think so. [LAUGHS] No, he’s still the same
guy just dressed up. It’s just a painted turd. Oh. TRACY MCMILLAN: Alexis has a
little bit of mixed messaging. It feels like she’s
open to him, and he seems a little open
to her, but maybe a tad protective of himself. I would say he likes her, but
the way she’s got her knee out, tells me she’s not willing
to let her guard down, not willing to be totally
open to him at least not yet. And what’s hard
for me to know is that if it’s just him, Chika,
she’s not quite open to or whether she’s more guarded
to relationships in general. But then when she puts
down her ex-boyfriend, you can see him immediately
retract her energy. He puts his hands
up to his face, and, suddenly, it doesn’t
matter how pretty she is or that she’s smiling. He’s like, whoa. I don’t know if I can
trust this person. And you’re seeing a lot
of that, that gesture with the hand over the head,
that seems like, I don’t know. That’s a question mark gesture. The wrinkles in the
forehead, I don’t know? I’m not sure about this. That’s what that says to me. In these early stages
of forming a connection, you are trying to
build something. It’s like building
like a house of cards. And you have to be
very attuned to what is happening with
the other person so you can keep building. It’s very easy to have
the cards fall down. So when she said that thing
about her ex-boyfriend, and she was harsh about
him, and judgemental, all a guy hears is oh, wow. MUSIC

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